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Having experienced a rather traumatic childhood and young adulthood through disability and medical conditions which resulted in years of bullying and prejudice I am living life as much as I can and am involved with helping others who are either unfortunate and haven’t received support or victims of something relating to the state or bullying. I am generally very understanding.
For many years I was a gifted child with special needs (brain damaged) and if you know how cruel macho people in authority who lack intelligence can be with trying to suppress my progress and labelling me, I had one heck of a battle but my tenacity and determination became too much for the control freaks to hold me back and so I have moved on significantly in recent years.
All this persecution took place between 1973 and 1993 in the Bridgend area of South Wales which has its history of suicides hanging over it now.
I have proven that what I was labelled as and how I was treated was all down to oppression since they wanted to make themselves look clever by undermining me. It was very much like The Weakest Link where the people in authority were the cowards and used the power of their authority like votes to make my strengths look like weaknesses because of my handicap. So instead of focusing my strengths on my education and career I have used them to work my way round all sorts of problems in life with unfairness, bullying and being as independent as I can in order to stop external factors weakening my strengths so I worked in parallel with the authorities so that they couldn’t hold me to ransom at their mercy.
I have since met up with various people who have been made medical scapegoats and lost a child who they believe could have happened to me if I had let the authorities get their way but I challenged all sorts of treatment and refused to let the authorities control my life. Some parents who have lost a child said I was a medical hostage who managed to break free and so I am able to speak of the experiences which cannot be done if it had resulted in a death.
I have comforted many who have experienced trauma as I am in tune with their feelings and try to reason with them to get to the source of the problem. Quite often, when they can see the truth they feel much better that the truth can be seen and is out there somewhere and that it is those in control who are trying to cover it up and give the impression that the truth will never be known. The truth is out there and it can be arrived at from all sorts of ways by getting the facts together and doing a bit of problem solving.
Anyway, enough of my past, what I would like to do is to help gather facts and understandings that how many of us are victims of cruelty by people who like to be seen as macho and these often lack the necessary intelligence to be in charge and do things properly. They think it is good to see their juniors suffer and this is totally unacceptable. While this can be applied to all walks of life it can be applied to what goes on in the army with beastings.
I have all sorts of thoughts and ideas of what could be behind people like this who gain at the expense of making others suffer and it is more of a talking point as it is too much to put here.
I have helped many victims feel more valued and made the bullies feel more devalued although they try to put on a brave face but going by the body language they aren’t happy - they cannot face up to the truth. Post a CommentOops!The words you entered did not match the given text. Please try again. 0 Comments |
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